This featured blog for the month of September was written by one of the newest speakers in the Drive to Save Lives prevention speakers network, Tammy McGee.
I never imagined I’d be sharing my son Conner’s story. Conner was just 16 years old when his life was cut short in a crash that should never have happened. He was riding with an underage, unlicensed driver who had been bragging on social media about how fast he drove. That day, he was going nearly twice the speed limit. In an instant, three young lives were gone—including my only son.
Conner’s death devastated me, but it also opened my eyes to something powerful: the difference a single voice can make. If just one person had spoken up—whether it was a friend, a parent, or a bystander—maybe Conner would still be here today. That’s a thought I live with every day, and it’s the reason I am committed to making sure no other parent has to endure this pain.
That’s why I created IfYouSeeSomethingSaySomething.org. It’s a safe, anonymous place where anyone—students, friends, teachers, bus drivers, parents, or neighbors—can report unsafe driving or destructive decisions without fear of retaliation. You don’t have to confront someone directly or put yourself in harm’s way. All it takes is using your voice. And your voice, no matter how small you may think it is, could save a life.
As this new school year begins, I’m reminded that what students hear and see outside the classroom is just as important as what they learn inside. Overhearing a classmate talk about racing down the highway, seeing someone post about drinking and driving, or watching a friend hand over their keys when they know they shouldn’t—these moments matter. They’re opportunities to speak up, to step in, and to prevent tragedy before it happens.
Adults have an equally important role. Parents can set the tone by talking openly with their kids about safe driving. Teachers can encourage students to look out for one another. Bus drivers and coaches can model accountability when they witness risky behavior. Speaking up doesn’t just protect lives—it creates a culture where safety, responsibility, and care for others come first.
Conner’s story now lives on through action. Every time someone chooses to speak up, it honors his memory and helps protect others. My hope is that this message empowers you to act when something doesn’t feel right. Because staying silent only allows danger to continue.
If you see something, say something. Visit www.IfYouSeeSomethingSaySomething.org. Your voice could save a life.